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Assalamualaikum =D

Petang tadi saya dan ibu minum petang bersama seorg pljr UIA drpd Turki bernama Busyra yg saya anggap seperti kakak. Kami berbual lbh drpd 2 jam dan pelbagai topik yang dibincangkan. Antara topik yang dibualkan ialah mengenai kerajaan baru di Turki. Kata ukhti busyra, tidak terdapat banyak perubahan. Bertukar topik pula ttg pelajaran. ukhti Busyra bertanya kepada saya, "what do you want to take in university?". Saya jawab, "Insyaallah, medicine."




"I really suggest you to take medicine in turkey cause it's really good there. Most of the Europeans take medicine there and not forgotting Malaysians. For medicine, Turkey is much much better than Malaysia. "

"Oh really?Insyaallah.."

"U know, study there n marry with turkish people."

Ibu plk tmbh, "She can be ur sister-in-law?"(tibe2 plk kluar topik)

"yeah, sure. Why not. I'll bring u to meet him when he come here next month."

"Hihi..(blushing)..No thanks.."

(back to the topic)"But there's 1 problem if u further ur study in Turkey. Maybe u r not allowed to cover(aurah) but I think u r allowed to cause u not a citizen. I'm not sure. Besides that, students in Turkey r very secular n their life includes CLUBS, ALCHOHOL N WOMEN(4 men). U will not get accepted if u r not that way. It's really important how u bring urself there."

Habis cakap pasal topic 'study' walaupun trkluar drpd topik sekejap. Sembang pulak psl perkahwinan di Turki. Ibu tanya ukhti Busyra psl budaya perkahwinan kat sana dan dia jawab:



"It's typical in Turkey if u love the person no matter if he/she is Indian, Bangladesh, Siberian, American, Chinese no matter if he/she is muslim, jewish, christian or atheist, young or old, you can marry that person. In our religion (Islam) it is not accepted but we can't actually say anything. That is our custom but not for some of us who r religious."

"Even when my older brother wants 2 get married to a secular girl, my parents did not mind as long as he thinks it'll work out. But Alhamdulillah after they got married his wife started to pray n covering (aurah)."

"Alhamdulillah.."

Sebenarnya kalau diikutkan banyak lagi yang kami bualkan tp kalau nk type x hbs plk..Cuma nak cerita tentang gaya hidup sekular masyarakat Turki. Alhamdulillah ukhti Busyra tak macam tu. Sebab tu keluarga ukhti Busyra suruh dia sambung belajar di Malaysia. Maaf, dialog di atas menggunakan BI yang tunggang langgang. Masa cakap pun main redah je asalkan msg2 faham.

Ya Allah ya Tuhan kami, jgnlah kiranya Engkau pesongkan hati-hati kami sesudah Kau berikan petunjuk, anugerahkanlah kepada kami akan rahmat kerana sesungguhnya Engkau Tuhan Maha Pengurnia.

Cerita pasal Turki teringat pulak manisan Turki yang popular iaitu BAKLAVA. yummy...Kali terakhir makan masa 2 tahun lepas. Itupun beli dekat Turki. Asal susah sangat nak cari kat sini!!